So I’ve a bit of catch-up to play from October last year! Somehow, not quite sure how, but perhaps preparing the household for a dearth of parents while our sons prepared for final school year exams (younger one) and cycling solo across Australia as a jolly(?!) idea to raise funds for the children’s hospital that saved him 10 years earlier (older one – go to the Fixed Heart. Fixed Gears. page for more) had something to do with it?! Then after a solid three weeks away returning to a number of important opportunities was enough to send me into the usual completely focused frenzy that prevents me from doing anything else until whatever it is that pre-occupies me is completed.

And so time marches on – like it always does and Christmas sneaks up on us, as it always does … and the gifts bought in September for overseas still languish in the ‘special’ cupboard and only get parcelled and posted hastily the week before the big day! When will I learn? Some years I have been phenomenal – the whole dining room table covered in tissue paper, glitter, craft glue and pompoms and the occasional cat lolling in his own secret Heaven smack bang in the middle of it, feathers stuck to his nose and tail but purring raucously. All parcelled and posted by the first week of December. But mostly, I am fighting time to get the oranges cut and dried to put on the door wreath with the firehot chillies; getting this ancient knickknack up here and there as each week slips by to only have the setting complete for Christmas Eve. And then it’s nearly over bar the wrapping paper carnage.

So this morning, New Year’s Day 2017, I sit with my first cup of tea for the day – a nostalgic mix of orange pekoe and lapsang souchong (nostalgic because its smokey taste reminds me of the Scottish tea made with peat water) – on our deck under the grape vine, at the small table covered in old Gwenney’s crocheted table cloth and write the first words for the New Year. As my slightly higher dose than normal steroids begin to take effect and my fingers begin to straighten, the restriction in my heel lessens and the aches and pains elsewhere subside, I determine that this year will be the completion of the stories I have begun – including the short ones for this blog. There are the short delights (for me at least) of discovering Ian Fleming and James Bond; of Somerset Maugham and Ashenden; of re-discovering Daniel Kahneman’s ‘Thinking Fast and Slow’ and the fabulous insights of Albie Sachs (‘We, the People’) during the period he was one of the many people who crafted the new constitution for South Africa. But also of my experiences with friends and family – those since gone and those recently born. There is always so much to write about and find succour within.

I have one friend who posts daily on her Facebook page her reason for being grateful that day. She has done it for 2 years now. Her pictures are wonderful insights into the gratitude of being. My father would always point out to me as a child and teenager the small detail that was so easily overlooked but was all the more miraculous for being there than the in your face happening. It was always the small details that meant so much for him and it is with never-ending gratitude that I thank him for instilling that insight in me. Sonja’s daily photos are a reminder to all who see them that it doesn’t take much to be grateful for what we have each day. Any of us who have lived in countries where the disparity between rich and poor is ‘untraversible’ know that for the slightest comfort we are truly blessed: our health (even when it is relatively decrepit) is a blessing as we can seek care and get help to some extent; our families being intact and not torn asunder by regimes, hatred, war, environmental carnage; our education and our freedom to live with decreasing gender bias. And so on.

I sit beneath a grapevine … those five words show how incredibly blessed I am. For that I am intensely grateful. I sit and write into this blog … again the intense privilege imparted by this action. So, as I finish my tea and set down the cup that was made in Zimbabwe and has traveled with me around the world before I settled here in Melbourne, I am grateful for being here geographically and temporally. I am here in 2017. Now that is something for which to be grateful.

All the very best to everyone and wishing you all the success and happiness you can handle for 2017!